When you allow your identity to change because of the person you are with, you are not being true to the relationship, to your self or to your mate. If you are worried that your mate will not appreciate, understand and judge what you like to do. Then it is possible that, that is not the right person for you. You and your mate should be able to truly be themselves in your presence as well as out of your presence.

Giving in to emotions

Stop giving other people power over your emotions.You don't have to cuss them out, or react to what they say.
When ever you feel yourself about to react to their words and actions, stop take some deep breathes and just bless them that they find their way. Don't allow others to change who you are at the very core of your being.

Love

The love you desire . How do you get the love you desire, first you must love yourself.